as of late though she has really seem to get more comfortable being close to me and paul. she has always been a little dog-like when it comes time for me to go to bed. she gets excited and follows me to bed. hopes on the bed before i can get it, walks around, meows, and throws herself down seeming to say, "okay pet me." when i get into bed she likes to lay down at arm's length...not too close, but close enough that i can pet and scratch her. lately though she has been laying down beside me and seems to like sleeping a bit closer than before. i love it and hope this trend continues. she is a great cat and has been in bed most of the day with me today. she just curls up and takes naps. she will move after a bit, but just to make a new place for her to lie on. earlier when i was still under the blankets she decided to have a nap on me. she slept there for a while before i decided to needed to make a potty run and check on paul too.
i love her. she is great cat and her personality is challenging at times, but oh so worth the wait when she decides to love on you.